久久精品精选,精品九九视频,www久久只有这里有精品,亚洲熟女乱色综合一区
    分享

    Philosopher Ruth Chang: Make Hard Choices

     心想事成_ 2019-07-13


    By Tammy La Gorce | | March 24, 2015

    Know Thyself: Ruth Chang outlines five steps to a philosophical selfie.

    Photo by Aurelien Levitan

    If philosophers can be considered celebrities, Ruth Chang is a rock star. Chang, who has taught philosophy at Oxford and Harvard and has been a Rutgers professor since 1998, is the guru of the moment for those wracked by indecision: Should you be an artist or an accountant? Is it okay to raise kids in your spouse’s religion? Are black socks better than white? The answers to these and other dilemmas  that cause us to wander in a fog of uncertainty reside within us and are accessible, she says. The way to unearth them is to get to know ourselves better.

    New Jersey Monthly: You studied law at Harvard and briefly practiced law before becoming a philosopher. Why the change? 
    Ruth Chang: You’ve got to do what you love. I didn’t pursue philosophy at first because what child of immigrants would? [Chang is Chinese-American.] It seemed like a crazy thing to do, not the practical route. But now I realize I’ve got the best job in the world.

    NJM: So you’re sure you made the right decision? 
    RC: Yes.

    NJM: In other words, you figured out that being a philosopher was not better than being a lawyer, but that those two things are “on a par.” And you chose to put your “agency” behind philosophy, not law. Do I have the semantics right? 
    RC: Yes. I have this kind of rough, five-step guide for decision making. The first thing is to think about what matters to you. That may include things like figuring out that your teenage daughter will never forgive you if you decide to move far away to accept a new job, because it would take her away from her friends. The second thing is to flesh out how the alternatives fare on a scale, one against the other: Is it better to take the job, which would help your family, including your daughter, financially? Or is it more important to keep her happy amongst her friends? And the traditional way of thinking about choice stops there. It’s like, “Lather, rinse, repeat”—you’re not really getting anywhere. You keep weighing one thing against the other, and you may find that you’re spinning out of control, because one of the two things may be better than the other, but you have no way of knowing…. That’s when you may have some evidence that two things are on a par.

    NJM: Where do you go from there? 
    RC: So the third step is realizing that the world has run out of reasons for pointing you in one direction instead of another. The world doesn’t have an answer for what you should do.

    NJM: Got it. So it’s not a case of something like whether you should gamble all your money in Atlantic City or save it for college, because the world does have an answer for that.
    RC: Yes. It’s common for people to think that having one superior outcome is just a fact in the world, and there’s the assumption that everything containing value has to be lineally ordered. That might work for lengths and weights, but it doesn’t work for values. One outcome will be better in some ways, the other better in other ways.

    NJM: What are steps four and five? 
    RC: The fourth step is to commit to putting your agency behind one of the options. I like to analogize that with falling in love. You put your agency behind your husband when you decide to marry him. The fifth step is to reflect on who you are; how, in committing, you’ve made yourself into this or that kind of person. That’s how we distinguish each other. You may be the kind of person who spends all weekend working on a bonsai garden. Or you may be the kind of person who spends her weekend writing about philosophers. Neither of those things is better than the other, but when you decide to do them you’re telling the world something specific about yourself. You’ve done something remarkable—you’ve said, “Here is who I am.”

    NJM: So the way to avoid getting bonked over the head by indecision when doing something simple, like walking through the cereal aisle, is to figure out what kind of person you are first? 
    RC: Yes. Let’s think about shopping for a toaster. Are you a form over function person? Or function over form? You might throw your agency behind attractiveness in a toaster, and I might throw mine behind durability. Any shopping decision is like that.

    NJM: Why do you think hard decisions are a godsend?
    RC: Well, they give us the power to create reasons for ourselves. To become distinctive. In making hard choices, we become the authors of our own destinies.

      本站是提供個人知識管理的網絡存儲空間,所有內容均由用戶發布,不代表本站觀點。請注意甄別內容中的聯系方式、誘導購買等信息,謹防詐騙。如發現有害或侵權內容,請點擊一鍵舉報。
      轉藏 分享 獻花(0

      0條評論

      發表

      請遵守用戶 評論公約

      類似文章 更多

      主站蜘蛛池模板: 香蕉久久一区二区不卡无毒影院| 国产精品国产三级国AV| 国产精品普通话国语对白露脸 | 欧美高清狂热视频60一70| 99久久激情国产精品| 成人做受120秒试看试看视频| 日本高清一区免费中文视频| 桃花岛亚洲成在人线AV| 国产精品国语对白露脸在线播放| 成 人影片免费观看| 久久大香伊蕉在人线免费AV| 国产精品色内内在线播放| 人妻久久久一区二区三区| 天堂mv在线mv免费mv香蕉| 国产小受被做到哭咬床单GV| 亚洲人亚洲人成电影网站色| 久久精品国产免费观看三人同眠 | 777奇米四色成人影视色区| 国产成人亚洲综合图区| 久久五十路丰满熟女中出| 少妇特殊按摩高潮惨叫无码 | 97久久天天综合色天天综合色HD | 女厕精品合集KTV偷窥| 久久久久亚洲精品无码蜜桃| 色噜噜亚洲男人的天堂| 国产富婆推油SPA高潮了| 久久丫精品国产亚洲AV不卡| 日韩精品人妻中文字幕| 国产高清自产拍AV在线| 国产成人亚洲综合图区| 亚洲码欧美码一区二区三区| 麻豆国产成人AV在线播放| 国内精品久久久久久久影视麻豆 | 欧美精品亚洲精品日韩专区 | 熟妇人妻中文字幕| 国产AV老师黑色丝袜美腿| 亚洲美免无码中文字幕在线| 成人特黄A级毛片免费视频| 久久精品不卡一区二区| 少妇AV一区二区三区无码| 国产又黄又湿又刺激网站|