Why Couples Who Post Less About Their Relationships On Social Media Are Happier
為什么不怎么秀恩愛的情侶更幸福？
They Live in the here and now
他們活在當下
Sometimes couples get so engulfed in social media that they spend more time posting about their relationship that they aren’t really enjoying it in the present moment fully.
When two people are in a relationship and choose to keep it off social media it allows for the couple to completely enjoy the time they are spending together，the couples know they don’t have anything to prove to anyone but to each other. They tend to be happier and much more secure with themselves and with each other.
有時候，情侶們被吞噬在社交媒體中，以至于他們花更多的時間在秀恩愛，而沒有在當下享受這份感情。
當兩個人在一起，并選擇遠離社交媒體時，他們便能完全享受在一起時間。這些情侶們知道，除了他們彼此，他們不需要任何東西向任何人證明什么。他們與對方在一起時，往往更快樂，更有安全感。
Seek validation from the partner instead of through social media
向社交媒體尋找認同而不是通過另一半
When you post something to the social media to show how she/he loves you, you receive positive comments and a ton of likes, this is a kind of validation. But validation should be from the partner not from the social media.
當你在社交媒體上秀恩愛時，你會得到正面的評價和大量的贊，這其實就是是一種認同（確認）。但這種認同應該來自你的另一半，而不是來自社交媒體。
Not every relationship is always rainbows and butterflies. If you and your partner experience life together you are certainly going to have disagreements and strains on your relationship. That's for sure. But the thing is, it is special and it is sacred. So do your best to keep your relationship private.
所有的感情不會一直都是如膠似蜜，郎情妾意。如果你和你的另一半要一起生活，你們肯定會產生分歧，你們的關系也會緊張的。那是一定的。問題是，感情是特別并且神圣的，所以盡你所能對你們的感情要保密。
